*If I wanted to post real names, I would have but that kinda defeats the purpose of semi-anonymous blogging n'est-ce pas? Also, if you have beef with some other blogger, take that over there. Let peace and civility reign bikonu. M wero efe ndi nsobu kita, a di'm very busy, e nu go? kpa cha kwa anya gi! *
There's this favorite Bible verse that I have, everyone says I have a mean streak to have picked this as my favorite Bible verse, but I not only love it, I absolutely believe it.
Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows.
Is this not the biblical version of what we new age influenced people like to call karma? (Yes even you too Alicia Keys, home wrecking hoe, I digress) Is this not a principle of the world? What you do to others will be done to you, in some way shape or form? You cannot plant an orange tree and get udala, impossicant! It will never happen. Whatever you sow, your must to reap by fire, by force, so jiri kwa nwanyo!
So Chidi, the man who impregnated one but married another and kept lying to both women, he definitely got his sha, my God does not disappoint. Not that I was praying for his downfall, I wasn't, he's not that important. So Chidi is a true coward. This penis having human, did not have the decency to tell his baby mama about his marital situation and waited instead for her to find out on her own. As much as I wish it were me who spilled the beans, it wasn't. She has her own network of friends who, through the powers of BBM, facebook and the other tools that were created for these purposes, found out and informed her with proof of his marriage.
So she confronted him and do you know what this animal did? He accused her of lying about the paternity of the child she was carrying. Yes the classic "deflect and accuse" mode we humans use when we know we're dead ass wrong. Never mind that he had previously accepted paternity. So the woman had a stressful 3rd trimester, now knowing that there was no future with the guy, her child would share DNA with him and she was truly on her own. Well when the baby was born a few weeks later, Chidi refused to acknowledge paternity at the hospital... and she ended up having to sue him to acknowledge paternity. He bought gifts for the child and gave her some chicken change for her, but refused to sign the birth certificate I'll get back to this is a moment.
So a few months later, Chidi's real wife arrives to the US and is caught up in the storm Chidi brewed for himself. So apparently, he did not have the decency or cajones to tell his wife that he had a beautiful newborn daughter, she too had to find out on her own. See Chidi in the week leading to wifey's arrival, decided to change his telephone numbers, I guess to avoid baby mama drama, but it didn't work. Baby Mama spent a few weeks trying to track him down and when she finally got the number and called, his wife picked up the phone. I can't imagine that it was a pleasant conversation.
I did not socialize much last summer, so I never got to witness the few embarrassing moments Chidi had to endure due to his wife's unbecoming behavior, but I sure did hear the gist. See, the formerly caring and attentive girl Chidi left behind some 12 odd years ago in Nigeria, had turned into an angry, short tempered woman, probably embittered by the humiliation that Chidi was putting her through. I can't say I blame her or would have acted differently if I were in her shoes. But they had more than one shouting match in public and several times she was openly rude to him in front of any and everybody. Initially people thought she was just ill-mannered, but when the gist was expantiated, few felt sorry for him.
If it sounds like I'm talking about his marriage in the past tense, that's because I am. Chidi and his wife are no longer together and NOT because of baby mama drama. If Chidi had done the right thing and claimed paternity from the get go, perhaps he would have still been married and he and his wife would have worked things out eventually, but he didn't. He waited for baby mama to go to court to sue him. She had to take him to court to get a DNA test; you would think if you were denying you were the father that you would be first in line to complete the DNA testing. He had to comply eventually and they went to court for a few hearings. It was after one of these hearing he got arrested.
Yeah, so apparently a while ago in our state, he got caught up in some felony case and posted bond. Then he decided to relocate to the neighboring state and never got his matter settled. There was a bench warrant issued for his failure to appear and since he was back in the proper jurisdiction, the law caught up with him and he was taken into custody until his case is over. So as you can see, it's not today that Chidi's irresponsibility started causing him wahala. Shortly after, his wife decided that she had bitten off more than she was willing to chew and left him. I believe she's back in Naija, not sure. His baby mama is raising her daughter by herself and Chidi sits in custody; all because he couldn't keep it in the pants or do the right thing at any point afterwards.
*title courtesy of @miss_jayla update on twitter today.
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E get as e be ooo. So Chidi b'unu is now --- in fact... nawa o.
All this drama for one person alone? Kai, but na serious mess up na. Chidi for just --- anyway, it's not too late. We can still do deliverance service for him. lol.
I feel most sorry for the baby momma and her baby.
@ Fabulola, what's with the jealousy???
LMAO! Hhahahahahahahahahahaha
I am dying of laughter!
the poor woman....kmt
Eh..Vera pls jump of a bridge...Lol
Stop by and read Original Mgbeke interview on my blog: Interview Thursday "...I wouldn't attribute the single fact that women are doing better for themselves as a cause of the higher divorce rates"- Mgbeke
Dude is crazy tho, he knew he had a case hanging and he let them take him to court? stupid ass.
WOW!!! Well, the moron had it coming a long time, misbehaving when he already had prior kwanta... shaking my head at stupidity.
Kpa.. i like Vit G, lol. Can I get it daily?
BTW whats with the comment before mine? Don't get it...